One SORCERER in the tribe of mankind
shares magical wisdom on :
“What kind of behaviour is that?”
wells up
(regularly)
from deeply within a confused tribe member.
Often gritted with some sharp gravel of anger and/or the muddy waters of sadness,
when delivered straight away.
A gush of this wells up from the source of life
when it is not quite clear how the displayed behaviour
can be understood to be
kind
(to all involved)
All to often ‘ behaviour’ within the tribe draws such 'wondering-'vibes from the source of live…
when the chosen actions show very few of the life affirming elements
springing from the sea of c’s:
care, compassion, clarity, calm confidence, curiosity, cooperation, creation
Which are the most common signs of a clear
flow of the awareness
of ‘ being one’,
Our behaviour is the magic wand in our lives,
but it is not always understood on which end you'd best hold it,
for it to work its wonders.
Many people think behaviour is a magic ' want',
bringing you what you want
when you want it 'badly' enough.
The line of thought is:
if I can do what I want,
I'll have what I desire
and then
as a result
I will be .....
(something I consider the best)
That is
holding the wrong end of the ONE stick,
as is already indicated in its form:
BEHAVIOUR
be (first) plus have (second) together ( I plus our) produces the full meaning of do,
in that order
The magic lies in holding the being-side of the magic wand called behaviour.
(fixating the doing side has quite the opposite effect)
Your behaviour is commonly considered to be ’ the things you do'
but do you realise that that is
always
stemming from the model of the world you have,
in the light of: what you are choosing to be
(in your self)?
When somebody is questioning your behaviour,
one is seldom only pointing at the chosen activity,
seldom only curious about what it is you are doing.
It is always related to:
the remembrance of what you
(both?)
choose to be,
in the context
of what you are having
together
(Which is, by the way,
stripped from all practicalities,
always
about the mutual understanding
of the nature of your relationship)
The confusion on the interpretation of what is happening and why
lies in knowing that
it is possible that the exact same behaviour,
(in the narrow understanding of ‘ the series of undertaken actions’)
can stem from anywhere on the
kind < -------------------------> cruel
scale.
---
no action, no choice is
(always/never)
intrinsically 100% kind or intrinsically 100% cruel
---
Isn't it magical,
that when some-one wonders how you are holding your magic wand
they do kindly show you what the ideal balance point
of the magical wand is ?
“What kind of behaviour is that?”
Kind!
It must be kind, because we are man (being) kind.
So the only question is....
which form of kindness are you displaying, with your being?
Which kind of kind?
That is clearly not always immediately obvious to all involved,
given that this question wells up.
They may know something you don't know?
You may know something they don't know?
See how it is inviting you to be so kind to shine your light on your interpretation of kind?
In invitation to be the knowing man, who knows oneself to be kind?
If ever you are confused about what it is you want
( and you may be tempted to see it as a specific result...)
Why not give a go at
wanting to be kind,
for all involved.
( yes, that includes being kind to yourself too)
Holding that end of the stick,
in my experience,
works wonders.
Many of us assume our joy resides in doing the same things
others we know
do,
in the very same way
others we know
do it,
having the very same things
others we know
have,
in at least the same amount others have it, preferably even more,
regardless of being aware on some level that this behaviour
is not really kind
to our own body
and/or
somebody's wellbeing.
Wave your magic wand, never leaving the very same position on the other end of the stick.
Being the same (kind, human) gives a lot of room to manouvre on the doing end,
honouring that you are a unique being,
with it's unique interpretations that eveolve
on the magical mystery tour of
what it means to be of the human..... kind.
Your wand gets more power every day.
You experience more joy in being human, every day, to.
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wells up
(regularly)
from deeply within a confused tribe member.
Often gritted with some sharp gravel of anger and/or the muddy waters of sadness,
when delivered straight away.
A gush of this wells up from the source of life
when it is not quite clear how the displayed behaviour
can be understood to be
kind
(to all involved)
All to often ‘ behaviour’ within the tribe draws such 'wondering-'vibes from the source of live…
when the chosen actions show very few of the life affirming elements
springing from the sea of c’s:
care, compassion, clarity, calm confidence, curiosity, cooperation, creation
Which are the most common signs of a clear
flow of the awareness
of ‘ being one’,
Our behaviour is the magic wand in our lives,
but it is not always understood on which end you'd best hold it,
for it to work its wonders.
Many people think behaviour is a magic ' want',
bringing you what you want
when you want it 'badly' enough.
The line of thought is:
if I can do what I want,
I'll have what I desire
and then
as a result
I will be .....
(something I consider the best)
That is
holding the wrong end of the ONE stick,
as is already indicated in its form:
BEHAVIOUR
be (first) plus have (second) together ( I plus our) produces the full meaning of do,
in that order
The magic lies in holding the being-side of the magic wand called behaviour.
(fixating the doing side has quite the opposite effect)
Your behaviour is commonly considered to be ’ the things you do'
but do you realise that that is
always
stemming from the model of the world you have,
in the light of: what you are choosing to be
(in your self)?
When somebody is questioning your behaviour,
one is seldom only pointing at the chosen activity,
seldom only curious about what it is you are doing.
It is always related to:
the remembrance of what you
(both?)
choose to be,
in the context
of what you are having
together
(Which is, by the way,
stripped from all practicalities,
always
about the mutual understanding
of the nature of your relationship)
The confusion on the interpretation of what is happening and why
lies in knowing that
it is possible that the exact same behaviour,
(in the narrow understanding of ‘ the series of undertaken actions’)
can stem from anywhere on the
kind < -------------------------> cruel
scale.
---
no action, no choice is
(always/never)
intrinsically 100% kind or intrinsically 100% cruel
---
Isn't it magical,
that when some-one wonders how you are holding your magic wand
they do kindly show you what the ideal balance point
of the magical wand is ?
“What kind of behaviour is that?”
Kind!
It must be kind, because we are man (being) kind.
So the only question is....
which form of kindness are you displaying, with your being?
Which kind of kind?
That is clearly not always immediately obvious to all involved,
given that this question wells up.
They may know something you don't know?
You may know something they don't know?
See how it is inviting you to be so kind to shine your light on your interpretation of kind?
In invitation to be the knowing man, who knows oneself to be kind?
If ever you are confused about what it is you want
( and you may be tempted to see it as a specific result...)
Why not give a go at
wanting to be kind,
for all involved.
( yes, that includes being kind to yourself too)
Holding that end of the stick,
in my experience,
works wonders.
Many of us assume our joy resides in doing the same things
others we know
do,
in the very same way
others we know
do it,
having the very same things
others we know
have,
in at least the same amount others have it, preferably even more,
regardless of being aware on some level that this behaviour
is not really kind
to our own body
and/or
somebody's wellbeing.
Wave your magic wand, never leaving the very same position on the other end of the stick.
Being the same (kind, human) gives a lot of room to manouvre on the doing end,
honouring that you are a unique being,
with it's unique interpretations that eveolve
on the magical mystery tour of
what it means to be of the human..... kind.
Your wand gets more power every day.
You experience more joy in being human, every day, to.
go to the next page